Sunday TV Shows & Twitter

hoaaaah~it's already Sunday again..haha..How are you all guys? i always fine as usual :D

Nothing to do on this boring sunday,i've already done with my college tasks...how about you? so,i just spend this whole day with watching many kinds of TV shows...my favourite show that i always to watch every weekend is The Oprah Show..tho' it was recorded show,it still interesting for me...i love every topic that being talked on the show...today,it talked about Taylor swift and one of her lucky fans named Jordan,and a talented young man from england named Shaheen Jafargholi..(oh,i'm falling in love with Shaheen,haha).

Shaheen is a young singer from UK,wales. he joined one of the most famous talent show "British Got Talent" and he has such an incredible voice. he invited to sang on Michael Jackson's funeral,he's just 12 years old and he's soooooo cute!!. He reminds me of David Archuleta...hahaha..both of them are so cute,humble,and talented.i love them so much :D

 and i just watched a kind of talkshow about technology,and they were talking about "Twitter Manner". i quite interesting with the topic,it talked about how we should behave when we're tweeting. but,in some cases there are some people who don't like if there are some other people who talk about how we should behave. but,for me..i personally like if there's a kind of conversation related to something what we called "Manner". as a human,as a social creature,manner is needed including in cyberworld. because,what you're talking about is show yourself in person,i mean, people will make a kind of perception of you based on your twit.



maybe some people can say "that's a boring show,if you don't like my tweets just UNFOLLOW me". i think it's easy if say something like that, but the reality,it's hard to push the Unfollow button..maybe it's easy for some people,but there are some people who can't do that easily,there are many things they should think first before they press that button. and there are some funny things that i always find on my Twitter Timeline, and one of them that usually happen is....when people say "IF YOU DON'T LIKE MY TWEETS!! JUST UNFOLLOW ME!!",and if there are some people who really do that,the person who said that check their followers in the next few days and find out that his/her followers are decreasing,and they'll tweet "OOHHHH...MY FOLLOWERS ARE DECREASING! THANKS TO THEM WHO UNFOLLOWED ME!!" in a sarcastic tone,i think that actually they really happy because they just lost their followers....i never pay attention about the numbers of my followers,if they ask me to follow them back,i'll do it...but,if they ruin my timeline i'll unfollow them,EXCEPT they are some people who i've already known like my friends...REAL Friends...i won't do that.

i just deactivaed my 2nd twitter account, i've already used that account for almost 2 years...i've got almost 700 followers and almost 2000 following. at first i thought it'd be fun if you have many people following you on twitter,but then i realised that the reality wasn't like that. i saw many people debate on Timeline almost everytime...about everything,tho' it's just started with a simple thing...it can grow bigger and bigger..and it can turns into an e-war. and there are some people who share their problem on twitter...at first,i'd love to read it..but,then i felt guilty because it's really not my bussiness..you felt like a paparazzi *lol*. in sum up,i think not everything can be shared on twitter,i personally don't like to share my problem esp about love/family on twitter,because i want have my own privacy. for example like,if i mad with my dad/mom i like to keep it by myself...not share it to many people...and i think they will not care with that,and it's not an important thing to be shared.

i just wanna being honest,i'm one of the twitter addict...but,i'm trying hard to minimize it...so,it was hard to deactivated my old acc with that almost 2000 following and 700 followers,because it's not easy to gathered those kind of numbers...haha..but,if i have to unfollow people one by one it'll be harder...because i'm one of the person who can't  push that "Unfollow" Button easily *lol* there are many things to think before i press that button,so,i won't do that and i chose to "unfollow" myself haha...

The reason why i did that is.........(there are many reasons actually), like what i said before...i always see an e-war almost everytime on my TL,maybe some people think that i'm trying to be a nice person or whatever...but,it's WRONG...they can judge me whatever they want,because they always say that"HEY,IT'S MY RIGHT TO TALK ABOUT THE THINGS I LIKE OR DISLIKE". and i'm trying to appreciate that. yes,it is their rights to do and say everything they want,but they MUSTN'T angry or dissapointed if someday there are some people who do the same thing like them,because it's also THEIR RIGHTS,and we don't have right to forbid people to do and say what they wanna say because  IT IS THEIR RIGHTS. *lol,very complicated*.

i don't like to being trapped in a debate or even a war,and i think no one likes to trapped in a war right?...even in real life, i can't stay between two people who are arguing..it feels uncomfortable for me...i've joined an e-war before,because it was related with my country...it was a war between Indonesian and Malaysian,because of football...haha..i confess that i was really angry at that time..but,then i realised that NOT all malaysians are bad..and then i feel guilty with my malaysians friends on twitter...they are all very nice to me..that's one of the example if you can control your anger it will create a new problem and it'll be continue. but,i finally apologized to them. Love is Unity. :)))

so,in sum up....we have to be careful with what we say...it's not because of the RIGHTS...but,sometimes we should realised that "KARMA DOES EXIST". i don't mean to scared you,but..if you say something bad to people,don't forget that it also can happen to you someday...just like a boomerang,it'll hit you back. no one can forbids us to say what we're going to say,but we should think the effects that we'll create and should be ready for what we'll get day someday because what we said,and it'll come unexpectedly..because God never sleeps.He's watching us...and he'll "Slaps" us one day through some people around us or a kind of situation that we'll never expected before. :)))